Random Acts of Kindness
The flight was late due to weather in Atlanta. The highways leading to the airport were all turned into parking lots. It was one of those afternoon travel situations following a day with the client that turned particularly sour. I was relieved to make my flight but camping on the tarmac quickly turned the joy of getting to the plane into no joy on the plane. At least I got bumped to the front cabin.
Unfortunately the single father behind me was closing in on a meltdown. The toddler on his lap was at the end of her rope and pretty much out of patience with the tower telling us to continue to stand on the taxi way.
When I travel, which I do a fair amount of, I tend to collect things - the snack left on the night stand at check in; the bag of pretzels from the plane; maybe the apple from breakfast that never got consumed; the chocolate on the pillow; even the mints at the hostess station. Almost always there is something edible in my briefcase.
I made eye contact with the unsung hero behind me. Yes ,my Fritos would be a welcome attempt at distraction. I handed him the bag and he doled the chips out one by one – trying to make them last until take off. Finally we were in the air and there was peace.
The tempest was only momentarily subsided. By the time we reached altitude things started to get uglier. A banana was the next peace offering and my last bit of stash. I did not even ask with body language, I simply handed over the goods. My guess is that the traffic jam caused him to reach the airport without time to stock up on in-flight nutrients. The little girl devoured the banana and then tried to eat the peel. We may not have achieved compete satiation, but we averted disaster.
After we reached the gate no words were exchanged, but the look he gave me, laced with extreme gratitude, was sufficient to explain his thanks.
When I lived in Vermont it was common to see very social minded bumper stickers on the backs of Subarus and Saabs. Save the Whale was popular as was Think Globally, Act Locally. But the one that I never really understood was Practice Random Acts of Kindness. Why Random? Should this not be something we just plan on?
I think this is a problem with the practice of Account Management as well. Account Managers give away all kinds of love and kindness to their customers, but it is not always planned, and worse it is not typically well measured. Do you know how much you have invested in your different accounts? Do you have a plan for it? Most of the time when I ask this the answer is pretty much, “not really”.
This is a mistake. When there is no or little planning and no real measurement then the likelihood is high that we are dealing with randomness. And, this means we are dealing with having no control over cause and effect. Account investments may pay off and they may not. This ultimately means we are wasting money.
Account investments need to be made with a clear strategy driving expected outcomes. If those outcomes are not achieved the plan needs to change. Otherwise we are investing in the wrong accounts.
Now in some countries certain industries have pretty tight regulations about this, so care must be taken in what is analyzed. But, even under these circumstances we want to still drive the investments with a clear strategy and at least an implicit understanding of cause and effect.
Don’t get me wrong on this. I certainly don’t expect that you have to plan who you are nice to on the plane or which car you let in front of you in traffic. That kindness needs to be spontaneous. When it comes to customer love – be strategic.




